One of the great influences that we humans imitate is that of our friends, acquaintances, books and articles we read, school mates, fellow workers etc. The people we have to be with and those we choose to befriend usually help make up the person we are. Qualities we have will likely rub off on our friends. Qualities and attitudes that others description will likely rub off on us to some degree.
Good qualities and mannerisms can be destroyed when gathering with individuals with poor and slovenly qualities. Individuals with no goals and no desires or aspirations can influence us to abandon our purpose and goals for achievement. Thus raises the question …
"Who are you hanging out with?
To be successful in weight loss and proper diet venture you must have goals with purpose and the positive mindset to put those goals in to action.
This reminds me of a friend who was overweight and trying to lose weight. He is well mannered worked hard in school and received A & B's in all his classes. He had several goals and ambitions formulated and ready when he completes his schooling. He was dedicated fun loving and a pleasure to be around. His school mates and acquaintances liked him and looked up to him as a good example.
In time he started to hang around some older students and there was a shift in his attitudes as he began taking on the inflences of the new friends. His mother very disappointed noticing a new negative trend in his thinking. She approached him one day on arriving home from school.
OK Sonny, "Who are you hanging out with?"
Good question. Who are you hanging out with? What do we mean? You know the people that say there is no need to correct your overweight condition. That's the way you are. Weight loss can not be done. It's all a weight loss scam. You will never lose weight so there's no need to try. You put in all that time and effort and you have not lost any real weight.
And so it goes the negative comments, attitudes, and outlook will turn you away and discourage you from what you really need to do – Loose Weight.
Do not let that happen to you.
Remember this example about "Henry Ford". You know the guy who built cars. Well Henry (after a few years of car building and manufacturing) came up with the idea that an automobile engine did not have to be straight in formation like 4, 6, 8, etc. Henry put to his engineers that he wanted them to design and develop a V-8 engine for his cars.
What were the engineer's conclusions after three years of designing? They told good old Henry that it was impossible to develop a V-8 engine. What would Henry do? Henry stand firm "go back and design the V-8". It took thirteen years but Henry got his V-8 engine. Henry could have crumbled and abandoned his goal and purpose due to negative thoughts of others.
So what is the upshot of this? Stop running around buying one weight loss promise after another. Save your money! Save your disappointment! The right approach is … getting a natural weight loss product. Natural weight loss for everyone is not as they say "rocket science" but is achievable and needs to be carried out for your good health and happiness.
You can conquer your overweight condition and it first starts with your positive attitude. Even those individuals that have previously tried and failed can be successful. These individuals with failed diets and the so called yo-yo diets can be successful. It starts with the mind – positive thinking and taking action.
One practical step right now is to take care of you physically and otherwise. A healthy diet, proper rest, and adequate exercise all help you to look and feel your best. Being neat, clean, and well-groomed not only makes you more desirable to be around but also gives you a healthy measure of self-respect.
What you should be developing and looking for is the inner person. After all, our innermost thoughts and feelings about weight loss affect what we talk about and even how we look. Do you have a confident outlook on your life? This will help you to have a happy expression on your face.
Case in point you want to HANG AROUND with successful weight loss and let that rub off on you.
That being said you now need to examine the natural programs available. Not all weight loss programs are equal. Some are very expensive. Some do not provide the right guidance. However there are good ones available. I recommend the best.
To your good health and happiness,
John Schmidt – Weight Loss Nutritionists
Source by John Russell Schmidt